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We provide highly motivating and inspiring leadership training and personal development programmes, tailored to your business and individual needs. We have a passion to assist others in their personal development and to help individuals and organisations grow and sustain change, allowing them to connect with their staff and customers in a real and effective way.

We combine a diverse range of learning styles and mediums with experience of over 20 years working for one of the largest international retailers within the UK. Our aim is to provide affordable coaching, development, and leadership programmes to organisations, groups and individuals that empower people to take full ownership of their learning, enabling them to better look after themselves and/or their customers.

Whether you are looking for a one-off lunchtime session or a programme to deliver cultural change, we can help. We have a wide range of programmes and workshops to help you manage change, build an effective team, improve communication, build morale and improve customer service and more!

Tuesday, 21 May 2013

Dream job

I think you could safely say I'm happy with my patchwork career at the moment.  What I mean by patchwork is my job at the moment is made up of a few different job's which i enjoy doing.  they feed my intellect and creativity. My role at Positive Change is only part time at the moment, I also work for a local charity part-time, I ebay a lot! and I buy and revamp vintage/antiques to resell.  My passion lies with Positive Change, which we would like to develop further to allow me to be full-time.  

We have a dream of a opening coaching cafe!  A place where people can meet for coffee and lunch, but also offer coaching and development services. We can run workshops from the cafe and even better if we had rooms to hold coaching retreats.  A place where people can take time out for theirselves, be it 20 minutes for a coffee or a whole self development weekend.  We could also offer alternative therapies such as Reki. 

We have lots of fantastic ideas to mix all of our interests and passions NLP, Reiki, Gestalt Therapy, Coaching, vintage, and craft!  Like visualising workshops where you can focus on where you want to be and build a physical vision of this in the form of a scrapbook page or a canvas.

My other dream jobs include chocolate taster or alcho pop inventor!! Lol


News-not-so-flash . . .

I didn't have time to read a newspaper or watch tv yesterday I was to busy!! You can tell Chris is on holiday! So this #bedm subject is my first failure :( 

NEWSFLASH - Chris should never be allowed to frolic in the sea in Turkey!!

I have had a quick look at today's headlines to keep up with current affairs (I must admit I don't really keep up-to-date with current affairs my head is much happier in the clouds) but nothing has inspired me  to write a blog post.  Think I will wait until something happens this week that inspires me.  The only thing that made me laugh was that Alan Sugar tweeted a false score during the football that resulted in Tottenham fans to cheer on reading said tweet to only find out he lied! Ah the power of social media is shocking at times.  Do you think we are becoming a nation that believes everything we read on social media sites?

Another subject in the media this week was our tremendous score of 21 in the Eurovision Song Contest! I mean really why do we bother? My son asked me why 'Sharon' from Eastenders was singing on TV when Bonnie Tyler was on which was the highlight of my Eurovision experience!  Don't even have Sir Terry commentating any more to make the whole experience more bareable!!

Rant over!! On to next subject of dream job!! Far more exciting :) see you in the next post!

Sunday, 19 May 2013

Holidays are coming . . . Holidays are coming!!

The biggest tradition in my family is Christmas!! We have so many little things we have to do during the Christmas period and Christmas is on our minds all year long!  I always buy christmas decorations and wrapping in the january sales and continue squirrelling gifts all year round!  I have a christmas present cupboard already.

Christmas preparations officially start in December when I am allowed to start wrapping up!  It is a tradition to crack open the 1st (notice I say 1st!) bottle of Baileys when the 1st present is wrapped.  Wrapping can only take place in the presence of alcohol! Harvey's Bristol Cream, Port, Snow Balls and Baileys are all suggestible!!

2 weeks before Christmas it is time to deck the halls!! All the decs get dragged down from the loft and the Christmas tree go's up.  My tree is a memory tree! All of my baubles have come from around the world.  Everywhere I go I get one from New York to Mexico! I have decorations that were my Nan's I have baby 1st Christmas ones! You name an event or a place and I have a bauble for it!! It is our tradition to put the Christmas CD's on start another bottle of Baileys and decorate the tree as a family.

Since I can remember it has also been a tradition to take a trip to London to see the light's, Hamleys window displays and the tree in Trafalgar Square.  When I was a kid we always used to get a Wendy's burger on the way home.  In recent years we have introduced taking my son to Winter Wonderland and Wendy's has been replaced by hog in a roll with apple sauce! Yum yum!

Finally Christmas Eve arrives!! It's open house at my mum's so the present dropping off can commence! Chips and dips, home made sausage rolls, mince pies, festive cupcakes and lashing of Baileys!! People come and go brining and taking presents!  And then the moment I have been waiting for the 1st present is opened!! New pj's for seeing Santa in :)

Ok so whole family decked out in brand new pj's it's time to put out Santa's mince pie and beer (our Santa doesn't like milk and cookies!!) out by the fireplace along with my son's letter to the big man. When my son was small I started a few traditions of my own.  I mixed porridge oats with silver glitter and put it in a little velvet bag and told him it was magic reindeer food that helps them fly home.  We sprinkle this in the garden before bed. It sparkles in the moonlight and you can tell the little ones it helps the reindeers find your garden to land in!!  When the munchkin finally go's to sleep its time for another cheeky Baileys and wrap the turkey in bacon and tin foil and pop it in the oven low to cook through the night! Makes the house smell lush!! Officially at midnight it is Christmas and the adults are allowed to pick one present from under the tree to open!!  Then its off to bed with nothing left to do but wake up about 2am to put stockings at the bottom of everyone's bed! And I mean everyone's! Christmas isn't just for kids!!

At last the big day is here and it's time to open our stockings!! Each stocking must contain a Terry's chocolate orange or it is not Christmas!! I would like to say my son is so excited he wakes up at 4am, but I don't have a normal child I have one that likes his bed, so we have to go and wake him up with sleigh bells around 9am! I swear he is 8 going on 18!!  Then it's down stairs for homemade ham and eggs (traditional Christmas breakfast) accompanied by Buck's Fizz (unfortunately Baileys is not considered acceptable before 11am boooo!)  More presents this time from around the tree.  Then there is lots of frantic kitchen business before the dinner is ferried out on plates, in bowls and whatever else is to hand and we can all tuck in! Our traditional Christmas dinner is turkey with all the trimmings and brussel sprouts are compulsory! Then it's time for pud then after eights, followed by coffee and liqueur's (another Baileys don't mind if I do hic!).

We all waddle into the front room to watch the queens speech (this is code for time for a nap) and some of us slip off for a little lie down and put on a pair of elastic aged waisted trousers!!  After a little power nap it's traditional to make and eat a selection of sandwiches consisting of turkey and cranberry, ham and mustard, pork and apple sauce and anything else u can put in a sandwhich!(Baileys is optional at this point). And then you have to play cards, either brag or Newmarket, until the wee hours of the morning!!  Time for bed looking forward to my next favourite tradition Boxing Day bubble and squeak!



Boxing Day is almost as big a tradition in my house as Christmas! There are a few rules though!  
No. 1 You must not get dressed, 
No. 2 You have to only eat left over Christmas food,
No. 3 You cannot leave the house,
No. 4 You must play with all your new toys!!

Boxing Day is a relaxed event in our house to get over all the excitement of Christmas Day.  We have a full English with bubble and squeak. Slob around in our pj's all day looking at each others presents and putting batteries in all of my sons new toys.  We eat cold cuts with mash, pickles, pickled onions, beet root and red cabbage, all washed down with (no not more Baileys!!) cram soda! Mmmmmmm! I am mainly tea total on Boxing Day to give my liver a rest!

What are your family traditions?



  

Saturday, 18 May 2013

Quote of the week . . .

I used to do this a lot and I thought for #bedm I would use todays subject of best friends to start our quote's again . . . very simple interpretation of the brief but it is the weekend and I have besties to catch up with!!


Journey to work

I have decided to put a twist on the journey to work suggested topic for today and tell you Positive Changes journey to work.  How we started, where we came from, what we stand for and where we are going!

Chris, Ros and myself all started out having one thing in common, we all worked for Tesco Ltd.  Later we would discover many more things we had in common.  Although we all worked for Tesco for a long period of time it was not until later on in our careers we would meet!

Chris had varying roles in store over many years and with her extensive experience was drafted in to deliver a new initiative called living service. Living service was a cultural change programme to help improve customer service amongst other things within the company.  As the programme developed it was decided that a select few would be trained as coaches to work regionally with management teams.  Meanwhile Ros was based at head office and had also been selected for the training.

During the training Chris and Ros meet, bonded and became firm friends.  They shared many of the same life values, interests and had a passion for helping others to improve and reach their full potential.  Chris and Ros returned to their change agent roles, but kept in touch and would occasionally cross paths.

Ros decided to leave Tesco to pursue other dreams and a simpler way of living.  She contacted Chris to tell her she was moving on and hoped they would keep in touch.

A year or so later Living Service was coming to an end and the economy had taken a nose dive and Tesco announced a number of redundancies.  After 20 years service it was time for Chris to start a new adventure.  Chris called Ros to tell her the news and that she had done a distanced learning course and was a qualified life coach.  Chris had the learning bug and was going to go back to school to study NLP.  Ros had also been busy gaining new knowledge and skills, in the form of Myres Briggs and Reiki.

When the girls would get together they would talk about dreams of starting a business doing what they loved, which was coaching and helping others to recognise their potential.  Chris had been volunteering with young adults and said how her coaching and leadership development knowledge had helped them change their perspective on unhealthy behaviour.  One night over a few glasses of wine Positive Change was born.  A little seed was planted!!  A dream of providing affordable coahing and development to individuals, companies and comunities that might not necessrily have acces or be able to afford specialised training.  All they needed was a website, a business plan and most importantly some work!!  This my friends is where (drum role) I enter!!

Now not many people know this but Chris is actually my mum! (Shocking revelation GASP). I was invited (told to attend lol) a brain storming session to help grow the little positive change seed.  At the time I was a stay at home mum, but my background was customer service, HR, project management,finance and according to Chris and Ros I am a whizz on all things techie (geek).  

So over a few months we planned the website, got together marketing material, opened a bank account, registered a partnership, contacted everyone we knew and got ourselves a logo.  Now the logo I feel is very important because it helps you to understand what we stand for.  Our logo is the tree of life.  Collectively we are all earthy, spiritual, creative and intuitive powerful women and the tree of life suited us.  We have strong foundations and we never stop growing.  We are always reaching for the sun.  We adapt and change as a tree does through the seasons and even through the coldest winter we remain strong and know spring will bring fresh hope and new life.

In our sapling stages of Positive Change we did batering, swapping our services, skills and knowledge for other peoples services, like coaching for beauty treatments.  we also conducted sample sessions and mini workshops to schools and charities.  Both of these ideas paid off as we could demonstrate and show people our products and use their feedback to improve our products.  During this time we recognised that many business leadership tools could be adapted to help young people and parents to better manage behaviour.  With this concept in mind Chris and Ros did an NVQ in working with parents and became parenting practitioners.  We developed a concept called Parental Leadership which I wrote about on the blog and you can read more here.  It has become very successful and a really good training tool.

We started Positive Change 3 years ago and it's been a roller coaster!!  Mainly ups and a few downs thank god!  We have laughed and cried and enjoyed every minute!!  We have worked with and met  some amazing people and companies (Saint Francis Hospice, The Queens Theatre, Team London & The Vibe just to mention a few) and look forward to all the new challenges and opportunities coming our way.

Our dream for the future is to work with large organisations and schools to create several programmes to help future leaders within our communities.  We recognise that in the current economic climate some young people will not be able to go onto further education and will have to call on their entrapanureal skills to start businesses etc.  There will be a lost generation that will need help to contribute to society.  We have a few ideas for this and I like the sound of The Leadership Legacy, a chance for established entrapenures and large corporations to pass on their knowledge and expertise to a younger a generation.  There are so many companies that started out small and grew and grew through a single mans/woman's determination and vision, ironically one of these such stories is Mr Cohen who founded Tesco.   FromWell Street Market, Hackney selling broken biscuits to multi million pound retailer No 1!!  So here I end my blog post where I started at Tesco!

I hope you enjoyed our journey to work :)

Lucy x

P.s. little mini celebration for my 100th blog post!!

Thursday, 16 May 2013

Pampering . . .

We all like a bit of pampering now and again, but when do you fit it in?  

It's very hard when your a working mum etc.  Here at positive change we would all like a bit more me time to go to the spa, get a massage or even just do something for ourselves instead of others for a change.  i think this is true for almost everyone.  

When was the last time you put you first for a change?  

Does putting your own needs before others make you selfish?

Do you feel guilty when you put your own needs first?  

The truth is sometimes you have to give yourself a break and take time for you to move forward in your life.  When we do things out of obligation, 'I have to or something terrible will happen . . ', we do it begrudgingly and not in a willing state of mind which makes it a chore.  When we do things because we choose to, in willingness, tasks seem to be easier.  Sometimes just taking 5 minutes me time can put you in a willing state of mind and choose to complete tasks for others rather than feeling beholden to others.  Sometimes is it is ok to say NO I am busy right now, but I can help you when I'm finished!

I decided yesterday to not take part in the challenge today and use my spare time to do something I wanted to do because blogging was becoming a chore.  Ironically enough I used my free me time to resurrect my old personal blog and also give my lonely tea cup's the make over I promised them!  And guess what the world didn't end!  I even looked at todays #bedm challenge through fresh eyes and completed it out of choice instead of through obligation.  Gooooo me!

If you would like to take a gander at my personal blog post today 'homes wanted for lonely tea cups' feel free :)

Life's lessons . . .


A juicy subject on #bedm I was looking forward to writing about, but unfortunately life got in the way!

I had planned out a fantastic post it was written in my head and it was perfect! And then disaster! My whole household has been struck down by a killer bug and a Red Cross has been painted on the door and my day was to short to fit everything in and blah!! Bit dramatic?

Anyway I did want to say that we should never stop learning or yearning for knowledge! I don't think I can pinpoint the most important lessons I have learnt in life as there have been to many.  Everyday brings you new challenges and each one teaches you something.  Today I learned you have to adapt when killer bugs strike u down, there are sometimes not enough hours in the day to fit everything in,  hamsters squeal like micro pigs when u transport them in the car (long story), you can't please everyone and husbands cannot put duvet covers on!

Maybe tomorrow will be better and I can write the post I wanted to write:)